2 Corinthians 9:7  
Each person should do as he has decided in his heart — not reluctantly or out of compulsion, since God loves a cheerful giver. (CSB)

Remember: A stingy planter gets a stingy crop; a lavish planter gets a lavish crop. I want each of you to take plenty of time to think it over, and make up your own mind what you will give. That will protect you against sob stories and arm-twisting. God loves it when the giver delights in the giving. (The Message)

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My phone’s vibration alerted me to an incoming call. The number was not one I recognized. Answering it, I was immediately addressed by name by a professional fundraiser with an urgent and breathless request. 

You know how this story goes. You cannot respond without sounding or feeling impolite. You listen far longer than necessary. You feel guilty when you let the person know you cannot assist at this time.

These verses in 2 Corinthians were written for you. If you cannot give to a particular cause with intentional cheerfulness, don’t give. There are a million good causes in the world. Each cause has its own pitch. They all sound urgent, and many truly are. However, the resources God gives us are to be stewarded wisely and thoughtfully. 

The guidance we receive in the Bible about giving provides a helpful order to our giving. Give first to the church you attend. Second-level gifts should go to ministries closely related to your church, like mission agencies and community ministries. Third-level gifts go to those that are meaningful to you because they impact those you love or choose to serve.

Plan your giving. Live generously. The only way to live generously and to give strategically over a lifetime is to say no to just about every unsolicited appeal. In the exceptions, make sure what you give to help is really helpful. 

It’s hard to say no to urgent appeals. This is how you do it: “I will not be able to give to this cause because I have other giving priorities.” Please keep it simple and respectful. Remember, our cheerful giving to particular recipients makes us kind toward those we deny.

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I will give cheerfully and obediently where it does the most good.

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Our Father, make us ever more extravagant and strategic in our giving. Show us how to give in a manner that honors you and serves others. Amen.